Here is what I am proposing:
21 Days of No Complaints Challenge:
1. Pray and ask God for forgiveness for being a complainer;
2. Ask Him to teach you how to live a life of Thanksgiving;
3. Read His book. Start with Psalm 142;
4. When you do have a complaint, ask yourself the following:
• What is the goal of my complaint? Is it to damage someone's reputation or is it to find a peaceful resolution?
• What is the estate of my heart as I complain? Do I need to forgive? Do I need counseling? Do I need to pray before talking to others about my issues?
• Will my complaint be fruitful? Do I need to learn more about the natural processes of life? Do I need to create a thankful heart instead of a complaining heart?